Relationship habits

Because it would be both inaccurate and unhelpful. You only see their behaviour from outside, while you know your own motives. And more to the point: a list of someone else's faults rarely leads to change — it usually leads to an argument.

This test does not answer that, and you should distrust any site that does. A high score means there is work to do, not that there is a conclusion to draw. The part worth reading is the list of specific things under your result.

Yes, quite a lot. Plenty of people are even-tempered in one relationship and sharp in another — habits form between two people rather than sitting inside one. Hold one particular relationship in mind while you answer.

No. It runs entirely in your browser, and if you save it to a profile it stays in this browser's storage on this device.

A single scale built from twenty relationship habits: how you react when angry, what you say when hurt, how you handle jealousy, boundaries, and taking responsibility. A higher score means more habits that wear a relationship down.

This is a mirror, not a diagnosis of you or of your relationship. A high score does not mean you are a bad person — it means some of your habits are doing damage, and habits can change. One thing said plainly: if there is violence, threats, financial control or being cut off from the people close to you, that is not a matter of habits and no quiz is the right tool for it — please talk to someone you trust or a support organisation.